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Edmund White 1940-2025

Edmund White died June 3, after a long and much-loved life as one of America’s great gay writers. His 1982 autofiction novel A Boy’s Own Story is his best known, a frank and honest story of growing up gay in the 1950s. Many gay men (including myself) found themselves in that book and the ensuing trilogy. He published 36 books including memoirs, autofiction, novels, historical treatments, and the 1977 Joy of Gay Sex. He is a foundation stone of gay English writing.

He always saw himself as a gay writer for gay readers, the distinction he drew between his generation of queer writers and those who came earlier, like Gore Vidal and James Baldwin. They might write gay characters, but they never seemed to be writing for gay readers. Ed was.

… Edmund White had no use for shame, and in both life and work, he refused to sand down the edges of queer existence to make it palatable. Acceptance was never the point. Truth was.

I’ve been mourning his passing these past few days. I didn’t know him personally but his writing and presence have been meaningful to me, particularly as I evaluate my middle-aged gay life. Some suggested reading:

Obituaries: New York Times (archive), Guardian
The Very Gay Life of Edmund White (archive), an appreciation by Aaron Hicklin
Yiyun Li’s tribute, also her interview with White about their friendship
Writers’ memories: New York Times, Irish Times
Michael Carrol on being Edmund White’s husband
Where to start with: Edmund White, a reading guide
Goodreads list of his works sorted by popularity
White’s contributions to the New York Review of Books
White receiving a writer award from 2019
Butt Magazine interview from 2006
i love to suck, his SilverDaddies profile

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